Remain unseen...

Sometimes I feel that those of us who have the concepts right, about the do's and dont's of married life, are the ones who find themselves unable to be appreciated enough to be wanted. Perhaps that doesnt really explain what Im trying to comprehend here for myself. Lets look at it this way... Some may have a brochure that tells us all the how's but no one wants the person who has the brochure with the rights and wrongs listed. They don't want to make an informed decision, instead they would rather let cultural norm take its natural coarse... Going out of your way to do as you believe is what scares people because it makes them uncomfortable. Getting past the uncomfortable unburdens the soul in ways infinite... and yet,

People want that which is not ready to be taken, and that which is, is left unseen...